There was a quote running around the internet
“men have fear of people laughing at them , women have fear of getting killed.”
This is true when Netflix ‘s new age show ‘Adolescence kicks in .
It’s about 13 year old boy who killed his classmate cold blooded. The theme is dark, intriguing and disturbing – but it’s authentic
To be honest , that wasn’t just the series – It’s happening all around the globe.
Why are boy hating the things so much ?
the boy in the movie doesn’t move the rock in one day, Ever heard of the digitized culprit – he got influenced by internet.
Yes, social media like Youtube, Instagram, Podcasts.
Wait , strange right?
There is more weirder word prevails Manosphere
This means the spaces influenced by so called “Alpha male” who claims they are helping the male in society to become better at the cost of hate against women.
There are various internet personalities popping out of internet , having millions of followers , they talks about money, fitness, manlihood
But beneath all that there is perception that
Womens are weak creatures
They are controlling mens life by hacking their psychology and emotion
As a man they must dominate in sphere
But sadly many young lads thinks it’s true they belives them.
It’s not only the west , It’s happening in the Eastern counterpart too.
People in the East have their own internet superhero. They too talk about
Gym , money , girls and as above their face becomes red
When they utter
Don’t believe in women
Don’t marry and stay out of alimony trap
Feminism must be crushed , they are creating toxicity in families.
These hateful comments are spreading lilke fire and many young boys have come under it.
Don’t you think it’s dangerous , a boy watches it’s a internet influencer video and have a built a wrong perception about the women , he got deep rooted in his mind that women’s are the problem , and in case of adolescence their energy and emotion do turns into dark action of violence.
So it’s well stated in above that boys are getting red too much and girls are wiping out .
And why not we can see in real life also , If a woman wants a divorce , people have their own script like she is greedy and corrupt or if a mans takes his own life , everyone one impulsly blames their wifes and girlfriends .Whole society blames woman , but the thing is when woman get hurts or killed no body get in the circle of suspicion.
This is Real and horribly it’s expanding
Let me give you the truthbomb , these internet personality aren’t remained entertainers now they are manipulating the young minds to the terrible things,
The boys are listening to these mens saying ,
About contolling women ,
Beating them or blaming them if life ask the tough questions.
The little minds does find the easy way to solve it and they believe the opinions of these influencer.But most downheartedly they act on it without having an second thought.
With this all being said How we can save our young girls and boys from dying and maniputated.
It’s useless to say that boys will grow out of it , when they’ll have responsibility on their shoulder.No it’s not unless we help them out.We need to talk to the boys , impart the lessons that strength doesn’t means lifting heavy weights or knocking other persons out it means kindness and respects.We understand their physical characteristic but boys must learn not to driven away by their emotion ,they must learn to grow compassionately with girls and yes they girls are their enemy.
On the end point note
I think that the world is asking the wrong question about how to raise the boys better,we need to change this and ask what kind of boys we are raising?
Do we need the men who is full of anger and anxiety or men with compassionate heart and respect? We need to act now so in coming future we can probably save girls from wiping out .
